The blowjob position you choose affects overall sensation. Rhythm and depth depend on your pose and you can mix and match many of them to take pleasure one step further, and if you’re into it, you can even edge a guy during oral, no matter the position.
We’ll go through quite a lot of cock sucking positions that you can try, but please note that some are ideal for beginners, letting you practice control, while others allow more intensity, unusual angles, and longer sessions.
Blowjob myths and misconceptions aside, experimenting with positions transforms oral sex from routine to unforgettable. Small adjustments in head angle, hand placement, and timing can dramatically improve pleasure.
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Beginner Positions
Kneeling in Front
When you want control without overcomplicating things, get on your knees directly in front of your partner.
Keep your back straight and your head aligned with their shaft to avoid neck strain. One hand can lightly hold their hips while the other explores thighs, strokes the shaft, or gently caresses the chest.
Alternate between slow, teasing sucking and firmer, rhythmic movements, and notice how small changes in angle or pressure change sensation. If your knees or lower back start to ache, place a pillow underneath for support.
Locking eyes can heighten intimacy. Small adjustments, like shifting your body slightly or varying lip and tongue pressure, let you find the perfect rhythm and keep the experience engaging for both of you.
Lazy Side-By-Side
For comfort and sustained stimulation, lie on your side with your head on a pillow or your partner’s stomach.
Your hands can trace along the shaft, explore thighs, or gently caress the lower abdomen while your mouth works in sync. Tilt your head slightly to control depth without straining your neck. Switching sides occasionally prevents fatigue and allows you to explore different angles.
Encourage your partner to move their hips or guide your hands to adjust pressure and rhythm. Transition between slow, teasing strokes and longer, steady suction for variety. This position lets you maintain intimacy while staying relaxed, making it perfect for longer, intimate sessions.
Seated Boss’s Chair
Have your partner sit on a chair or the edge of the bed, and kneel in front of them.
Your hands can explore chest, nipples, or thighs while your mouth moves along the shaft. Keep your back straight and your head aligned for comfort and control.
Adjust angles slightly to manage depth, and synchronize your hands with your oral technique to increase stimulation. A pillow under your knees will help during longer sessions. Eye contact increases intimacy, and alternating between teasing and steady sucking makes the experience more dynamic. This position is perfect for beginners who want to focus on technique while keeping both partners engaged.
Couch Lean
Encourage your partner to lean back on a couch while you kneel between their legs. Hands can explore thighs, shaft, or chest while your mouth works along the shaft.
Adjust your head to control depth and maintain comfort. Placing a cushion under your knees helps reduce strain. You can switch sides periodically to prevent fatigue, and your partner can subtly move their hips to guide rhythm.
Alternate between teasing slow strokes and firmer, rhythmic sucking to vary sensation. Eye contact strengthens intimacy. This position balances comfort with control, making it ideal for casual or playful sessions.
Intermediate Positions
Side Car
Kneel or lie beside your partner at a slight angle. This setup lets you use your hands to explore thighs, shaft, or chest while your mouth works along the shaft.
Small adjustments in your hip or shoulder angle can improve comfort and intensity. You can switch sides periodically to prevent fatigue, and your partner can shift their hips or guide your hands to adjust pressure.
Alternate between slow, teasing strokes and firmer, rhythmic sucking to keep stimulation varied. Side Car works especially well for long, teasing sessions, letting you maintain control while giving your partner strong oral sensations.
Lay Back Jack
Have your partner lie on their back. Use your hands to explore thighs, chest, or shaft while your mouth alternates between gentle sucking and licking. Adjust your head angle to control depth and comfort.
Teasing rhythm intensifies arousal, and placing pillows under your shoulders or neck reduces strain. Encourage your partner to provide subtle feedback so you can modify pace, angle, or pressure.
This position lets you focus fully on technique without balancing your body, creating an immersive, intimate experience for your partner.
Sideways 69
Lie on your side and align hips so both of you have easy access. Your hands remain free to explore thighs, shaft, or chest while your mouth works in sync.
Adjust leg positioning for comfort and alignment. Switch sides periodically to prevent fatigue. Alternate between slow, teasing sucking and longer, steady strokes to vary sensation.
Communicate with your partner to ensure rhythm and intensity feel good for both. Sideways 69 allows mutual stimulation while keeping the session intimate, comfortable, and engaging.
Thigh Pillow BJ
Have your partner lie back with their thighs elevated on a pillow. Kneel in front and use your hands to explore hips, thighs, or shaft while your mouth works in rhythm.
Adjust pillow height for optimal angle and comfort. Switch between slow teasing strokes and firmer, rhythmic sucking to vary stimulation.
Encourage your partner to guide your hands or move their hips slightly to increase pleasure. Elevating the thighs reduces neck and back strain, allowing longer sessions. Paying attention to subtle reactions will help you find the ideal rhythm and pressure.
Edge-of-Bed Lean
Position your partner at the edge of the bed while you kneel facing their shaft. Hands can support hips or explore thighs while your mouth maintains steady rhythm.
Tilt your head slightly to adjust depth without straining your neck. Pillows under your shoulders increase comfort and stability. Alternate between teasing, slow sucking and firmer, rhythmic movements to create varied sensation.
Subtle adjustments in body angle can enhance stimulation. Encourage your partner to move their hips to guide rhythm. Edge-of-Bed Lean is perfect for extended sessions that require controlled depth and consistent oral technique.
Lap Rest BJ
Have your partner sit with legs slightly apart and rest your head on their lap. Hands are free to explore thighs, shaft, or lower abdomen while your mouth focuses on oral technique. Adjust head angle for comfortable depth.
Switch between slow teasing and steady rhythmic sucking to vary stimulation. Eye contact strengthens intimacy and allows you to read subtle responses.
Small shifts in position can intensify sensation and help you maintain control. Lap Rest BJ is ideal for longer, focused sessions where you want comfort and precision.
Advanced Positions
Face Straddle
Straddling your partner’s face puts them in control, but it also gives you a unique perspective to enhance the experience. Position yourself so your weight is balanced comfortably on their chest or shoulders while your mouth maintains steady suction.
You can use your hands to glide along their hips or thighs, or gently pull them closer to deepen sensation. Adjust your head angle to manage depth and reduce strain on your throat.
You can switch between slow, teasing licks and firmer, rhythmic sucking, paying attention to their subtle reactions to guide intensity. Eye contact or watching their expressions from this angle adds a layer of intimacy and excitement. T
o maintain comfort during longer sessions, slightly shift your weight or place a cushion under your knees. Face Straddle is ideal if you’re confident in your technique and want to combine deep stimulation with visual and physical engagement.
Saddle Straddler
Another way to intensify oral stimulation is having your partner straddle your face while you kneel beneath them. Position their hips so you can control depth and maintain steady rhythm without straining your neck.
Hands can move along their thighs or hips to stabilize yourself and add stimulation. Transition smoothly between slow, teasing movements and firmer, rhythmic sucking to keep the experience dynamic. Small adjustments in your head or torso angle can help you manage deeper access while maintaining comfort.
Encourage your partner to gently thrust or move in coordination with your movements to increase pleasure for both of you. Using a cushion under your knees or chest support can reduce strain, allowing you to sustain the session longer. This position is best for confident, experienced participants who enjoy giving and receiving feedback while exploring dominant and submissive dynamics.
All Fours Access
All Fours Access lets you explore angles that are otherwise difficult to reach. Have your partner on their hands and knees while you kneel or stand behind them.
Your hands can glide along their hips, thighs, or shaft to add extra stimulation while your mouth maintains consistent rhythm. Adjust your head and body angle to manage depth comfortably, and consider using pillows under your knees to reduce strain.
Encourage your partner to move slightly to influence sensation, giving you opportunities to vary pressure and pace. Transition between teasing licks and steady, firm sucking to create different sensations. This position allows intense oral stimulation from a unique angle while giving you more control over depth and rhythm. Communication is key to ensure comfort and coordination.
Over the Edge
If you want deep access with precise control, have your partner stand while you lie back with your head over the edge of the bed.
Your hands can support their hips or explore their thighs while your mouth maintains steady rhythm. Pillows under your shoulders or back will help reduce strain and maintain alignment.
Adjust the angle of your head to manage depth safely, and use a combination of teasing, slow sucking and steady, rhythmic movements to build pleasure gradually. Your partner can move their hips or adjust thrust to guide intensity.
The Hump and Blow
For a dynamic, high-intensity experience, try The Hump and Blow. Have your partner thrust lightly while you continue oral stimulation.
Wrap one of their legs around you to stabilize and maintain depth. Use your hands on their hips or thighs to increase sensation while keeping your mouth synchronized with their movements. Start slowly to coordinate rhythm, then gradually increase speed or pressure based on feedback. Adjust your head and torso to avoid fatigue and maintain comfort.
Transition between teasing and steady strokes to vary sensation, making each movement feel more intense. This position is best for couples experienced in coordination, depth control, and extended oral sessions, creating a powerful and interactive experience.
Kneeling Elevator BJ
Another way to explore deep access is to have your partner stand on a stable surface, like a step or low bench, while you kneel beneath them.
This elevation improves alignment and gives you more control over depth. Your hands can slide along their thighs, hips, or shaft to add stimulation while maintaining steady oral rhythm. Transition between teasing, slow licking and firmer, rhythmic sucking to vary sensations. Pillows under your knees can reduce strain during longer sessions.
Slight shifts in angle or head position help maintain comfort while increasing intensity. This position works best if you’re comfortable with advanced techniques and want to combine deep penetration with precise control over rhythm and depth.
Creative/Extreme Positions
Prism Seat BJ
For a bold and visually exciting angle, try Prism Seat BJ. Have your partner sit sideways on a sturdy surface, like a low table or dresser, with their legs spread. Position yourself kneeling or standing beneath them so your mouth aligns with the shaft.
Use your hands to explore hips, thighs, or gently guide their movements while keeping your mouth in sync. Pillows under your knees can help reduce strain, especially if the surface is slightly elevated. Transition between teasing licks and steady, rhythmic sucking to vary sensations and maintain engagement.
Encourage your partner to adjust their hips or shift their weight, creating a dynamic flow that keeps both of you connected. This position allows for deep oral access, strong visual stimulation, and playful interaction. It’s ideal for adventurous couples who are confident in maintaining control and experimenting with height and angle variations.
Slide-and-Suck Sofa Setup
Slide-and-Suck Sofa Setup creates a playful yet intense experience. Have your partner lie back on a sofa or cushioned bench with legs draped over armrests or supported on pillows. Position yourself kneeling or standing to maintain control and depth. Your hands can stabilize their hips or thighs while your mouth works rhythmically along the shaft.
Alternate between teasing, slow strokes and more deliberate, steady sucking to create dynamic sensations. Subtle shifts in your angle and hand placement help you maintain comfort and reach different areas.
This position allows for hands-free variation if you use pillows or cushions strategically. It’s ideal if you’re looking for extended sex sessions.
Hanging Leg BJ
Hanging Leg BJ is a high-intensity position that combines deep penetration with unusual angles. Have your partner lie on a raised surface, letting their legs hang over the edge. Kneel or squat facing them, using your hands to support their thighs or guide the shaft.
Adjust your head and torso to maintain comfortable alignment while controlling depth. Alternate between teasing, slow licking and firm, rhythmic sucking to increase sensation. You can also vary hand movements along the thighs, hips, or shaft to enhance pleasure. Pillows under your knees help reduce strain during longer sessions.
This position works best if you are experienced, confident with unusual angles, and want to explore intense oral stimulation with visual impact.
Partner Straddle Swing
For playful motion combined with oral control, try Partner Straddle Swing. Have your partner straddle a firm chair or low swing while you kneel beneath them. Hands can guide hips or stabilize the thighs, while your mouth controls depth and rhythm.
Alternate between gentle, teasing strokes and firm, rhythmic sucking to keep the experience dynamic. Encourage your partner to lean forward or sway slightly, using their weight to adjust pressure and sensation. Subtle adjustments in your head or body angle can enhance comfort and allow deeper access.
Pillows under your knees or a cushion for support make longer sessions sustainable. This position is perfect for couples comfortable with advanced coordination and looking to add playful motion to their oral routine.
Standing Twist BJ
For a spontaneous and intense setup, try Standing Twist BJ. Have your partner stand with their legs slightly apart, and position yourself kneeling or in a low squat. One hand can stabilize their hips while the other explores thighs or shaft.
Adjust head angle to control depth comfortably. Encourage your partner to lean against a wall or piece of furniture for balance. Alternate between teasing sucking and rhythmic strokes, and use slight twists or rotations of your torso to vary angles.
This position is perfect if you want a quick, dynamic oral session that emphasizes control and visual engagement. It’s ideal for spontaneous moments.
Make It An Experience
No matter which position you choose, focus on rhythm and communication. Adjust head placement, and hand movements to stay comfortable while maximizing pleasure.
Pay attention to your partner’s reactions and guide the experience dynamically. Using these positions as a foundation, you can create oral sessions that are more intense, intimate, and satisfying for both of you by combining and mixing them.
